These words are heavy in their meaning…

They tear at your heart if you have one for those who feel forgotten

These words define the inner ego of another

They demonstrate the power another can have over someone

These words speak about the brokenness of someone

They state the fragile nature of a friend or foe

These words address if self-validation is present

They recount how many times a person can self soothe if at all

These words can drive a person to seek help or hide in the shadows of those who do not need the uplift of otherspexels-photo-1067194

They counter act self-destruction or assume that love does not exist

These words will honor or discharge your responsibility to others

They will enable a thought process that someone’s plight is not your concern

These words would suggest you checking in….

They hold true for so many that to discount their meaning would lead to more loss of life

These words would loosen the sting of judgement

So, pray for me and forget me not is the motto of the humanity side of mankind.

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“easy, breezy, beautiful…Cover Girl.”

For the love of books

How to teach girls to enjoy ready-

It’s to open the pages of her imagination

For her allow it to be her dream come true

It’s that Prince on white horse

It’s not a damsel in distress

It is that Princess taking charge of her life.


It will be in the relationships she develops

She nurtures so make sure the protagist takes care of others or give her an animal something she can hold on to

Her needs will come to life as she witnesses other taking steps to where she wants to go.

The dialogue must hold her attention

She must understand her feeling less than < must never find its way into who she is becoming

Helping her understand what she is good at will make a path seeable.

Her future will be bright when she discovers she has an ally, and to find that in her own hand –power.

There will be no need to put up with what is obviously not going to work

She will know her value comes not from lips, but pages.

She is that natural girl who is easy, breezy; beautiful she is that cover girl.

The door will swing open to an awesome existence that will allow her to believe you can fly (soar)

She can flip through the pages and share her life unfolding

It is the brightness in her eyes as reality is manageable

It is a choice she can make whenever her fancy allows her to.

The picture she sees is a reflection of who she can be

That moment in time that becomes her reality

That hope diamond is found in her hand

She will understand that when she travels she can take others with her.

A book in the hands of a girl is a promise

Of great things to come

Stories to be told

A future to hope for

She is that cover girl who forces her naturally beautiful mind room to speak

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1-2-3 slump in your hump

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How does one overcome the slump in hump day?

First, I would advise starting with a positive attitude about what stage of life you find yourself. Understanding how this will affect your actions, speech, and outlook. It is the clarity in your recovery that grants you the power to understand the unsettled parts in others.

It is true when you hear misery loves company, but refuse to allow the uncertainty within that wants to drown you cloud your judgment. Your life can be a lesson in strength if you forget how you were hurt, ignored, or rejected. That person before you right now did not cause you injury so don’t take it out on them.

Within you is just what the doctor ordered for the patient you did not realize you would have to care for today. But it is okay you are ready, you have been prepared for center stage.

Then I would advise don’t assume you are the answer to every problem you encounter. Really, if your experiences give you nothing to say just be quiet. Silence can be a good companion in situations where your knowledge can not sustain you in a conversation you know nothing about.  It really is okay not to open your mouth then to say something you will regret later.

At times, it can really be uncomfortable dealing with silence, so that is why it is important to get okay in your own space. You then can help others love the skin that they exist in without having to answer for it.

Never explain yourself. You will not please all of the people anyway with your answer. But what others can do, is only assume what your silence means. You will win the war but not engaging in every battle.

Finally, the peace you carry will illuminate and reset the fire in someone’s soul. Because calm is your standard nothing else can exist in your presence.

The idea that calm only exist with you will enable you to reset the chaos for calm that could not present itself without you.

Nothing is more powerful than your ability to remain calm when everything around you is coming unhinged and the stress of it floors the many.

The power vested in me I will bestow on the situation as you follow my peace that calm you hope for will show up to push you through with a revitalized energy.


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Inspire Me with Sayings

Healing For a Broken Heart

For ages, songwriters have tried to capture the heart-wrenching feelings that arise from these circumstances with lyrics like, “How I am supposed to live without you when all I’ve been living for is gone?” and “I ‘ll never get over you getting over me;” as well as “You’ve lost that loving feeling.” Yet, these emotions are not articulated as clearly as we often wish they were. Often the pain is so deep and so excruciating that we tend to repress and deny the anguish rather than handle it properly.

  1. Find hope.

But forgiveness requires hope: believing that a better place exists, that the aching emptiness experienced in your every activity won’t be with you forever…

  1. Lean into the Tender Place

I know once my heart is opened, I can find the courage to lean into the place where I am broken, to lean into that opening, letting life rush in and touch me there, even though that place is incredibly tender. I’ve discovered over time that the rush of life into the tender place where we are broken is the beginning of resilience.

What is the Heart Chakra?

The energy of the heart chakra is depicted as a deep, emerald green color that ties us to all living things around us. Green is associated with new life and natural surroundings – it is tranquil, yet energized, soothing yet vibrant. The energy produced by the heart chakra allows us to have meaningful relationships and to feel empathy, compassion, passion, forgiveness and caring for other people.

1.    Develop a non-judgmental relationship with your mind

Without addressing a mind run amuck, the chances of skillfully working with your feelings is kind of limited. Spend some time every day, not squashing your icky thoughts and promoting your good ones, but simply watching your mind in a relaxed way—no matter how wild it gets, you can remain steady. This is what meditation teaches you how to do. This is best done through the practice of meditation, instruction.

Here is my love experience: tried loving men from a place that was empty and commitment was never a possibility, but you could not tell my younger self I was not in love. As I have grown in maturity as it relates to love with God’s help, I gave up trying to love men I should not in order to say “yes” I understood love. I surrendered my need for love and the exploitation of it. And I begin to understand the love God had for me by way of my husband, who spoke to areas that only God knew and could heal. So here is what I chose not to believe, that I was not valuable enough to be loved, by accepting the love offered even if it seemed to be too good to be true. P.M. Mathis


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comic relief is sometimes needed

Doing all of what I use to is no longer an option, but it is okay

What use to matter really don’t anymore, and that is okay too

Sometimes it just not what you want to hear, so you sit still and become okay

When you don’t feel qualified, but that is okay just use the mustard seed

Deciding that yesterday does not hold all you could have been, and you are okay with that

You might not know as much as the next person, so you do what is okay for you

Don’t jump ship when life will not surrender the life support you need, but realize you have all you need to survive.


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Starts with you and your willingness to share your heart with others

Is necessary for our survival as a united front to terror

Your outlook on the suffering of people can be used to help you realize your situation is not really that bad

The lesson of better to give than received will be played out to enrich the existence of someone else

Nothing can touch your afterglow and your testimony will come alive in others

By photo or story help someone understand the value in helping others

There is strength to be gained, hope to be achieved, and encouragement to be handed out

Hold fast to the belief you have something to give and an opportunity will open up.


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Huff Post where you will tweak your need to listen more carefully

PBS Parent there is a development in what you say and how you react to gaining knowledge

USA Today are you hurting mentally or physically then use an alternative and try not to be medicated through life.

Color Your Decisions in the mist of storms that rage in your head reside in the place where music changes the atmosphere

REPUG Or Demi sometimes you just have to allow the music inspire you to jump in the ring and allow others to hear from you

LISTEN While Working it will drain all the negative stuff you hold as if it was a brand new doll.


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I am my mother’s beauty because I have my mother’s face

I have a smile because I was well loved by my mother

I knew I was loved because of her actions

Your mother makes the dream work

To the end, she will fight for you

When the time comes, that mom is no longer with you now it is your turn to remember all or most of what was taught to you

I was taught to take charge of my life because I was my mother’s shadow

Everything I am is found in my mother’s face and now is reflected in my daughter.


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Well it is over, and now you know so what are you going to do?

God is still on the throne and hostile living environments have always been a part of your DNA, so trust just like always He will get you through

Let your platform not be one that conforms and endorses action that goes against your core values

You are destined for greatness let nothing throw you off your game because all kinds of decisions will be made you might not like, but you still have to push on

Sit down in the chair God is offering you, so you can rest and leave it all up to Him.


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you are getting into the ring that say more about you then the negatives that some can say:






Does my color really affect my ability?

Am I really not considered because my hue?

I know there really is hate in the world, but why do you have to keep making color the issue?

The idea that you would really like each person better if they were like you is that where you are?

Because your reality really is not what you think it ought to be is it right to blame someone else for what they can accomplish?

There are real and present dangers that we must face are you really going to allow color to be another issue you take on?

No race is perfect, but hating based on color is just old school realities that we no longer have to live in.


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