to ask others their opinion can leave you discouraged, so is it worth asking?
do you really need their validation or do you assume your go ahead decision is not good enough?
is it really necessary to design your actions after someone else, or should you consider being a force others want to emulate?
are you saying your wonderfully made is broken, so therefore you are not sufficiently designed? Then what of God?
your dreams cannot be those of others if they are do you expect whoever dreamt them up for you to accomplish them?
ordinary by itself might not present a qualified picture of certainty, but what if you add a word that gives it superior meaning? such as:
you must be your final answer to any question that way you don’t allow someone else to be in charge of your emotional stability.