Ordinary Princess, the clear evidence that you get it (making good judgment calls) is in the decisions you make for your life. Trust that little voice inside you that says, “yes this is right for my life.” If you don’t get the go ahead on a choice, just don’t do it.
Ordinary Prince, the challenge is not in being perfect because you will never be. So then challenge yourself, to be the best “you” that is humanly possible for you. Knowing you are the best in your field of living your life perfectly.
God, we can ask a lot of the generation because we ponder our own failures. But help us know that we have not failed but lived and did the best we could. That way we can instruct from a position of compassion.